Friday, March 12, 2010

On small good things...

I have been reading about death and destruction all day, of the murderous and depraved ways that man can kill and injure fellow human beings.  Stories of laser and directed energy weapons that should, in any sane world, have stayed permanently between the pages of a science fiction novel.  Of weapons that make no noise, of which there is no awareness until the moment that the victim starts to fry, viscera evaporated, an ash shadow of their former selves.  Man-made anti-humanity.

It angers me that according to the 'officials' there are no victims in this game  - no mothers, fathers, daughters or sons.  No lovers.  Just vague, valueless references to 'collateral damage' or 'targets' in far-away countries like Afghanistan or Iraq.  Erasing the essence of humanity. 

According to this skewed version of reality there are only dichotomies and difference.  Good vs evil. Us vs them. Different landscapes, political, cultural and ideological differences. Places where it's okay to torture and to test new ways to kill.  Places where lives just aren't as important, unless those lost are our Anglophone 'brothers and sisters', which are tallied up and reported nightly on our news.  You know the stories... "Two Australians were killed in Iraq today" ... not daring to put any  faces to the statistics, and not daring to give any statistics that aren't 'ours'. Not reporting the misery.  Best left unsaid. Leave unsaid the way the targets are killed, because the means are unspeakable. Let's just talk about 'successful missions' and victory.

But I want to tell you.  Because the victim's relatives still have voices. They have been found for us, if we look, if we don't just lazily rely on spoon fed media images, distorting reality to sell news and politics and other shit.   We can see them for ourselves,  crowding in hospitals,  cradling the ones that are managing to live but may yet have no life; fathers, mothers, sons and daughters, bandages, blood and missing limbs, peering into wavering video cameras eager to tell their stories while they have a chance in the hope that someone, somewhere will repeat their story. Trusting that someone will help to restore their humanity.  They are on the internet, mediated;  we are spared the fetid smells, the sticky feel of blood beneath our feet, the flies, spared the very worst.  We can only imagine how it feels, but it is there to see. If we look.

On these days I come home,  feeling sullied, dirty, disillusioned, angry. Eyes burning from tears that sneak down my face.  Guilty that I am not being a 'good scholar' - dispassionate and objective. Guilty that I am  trying to be that person.  A myriad of tormented emotions hosted in my mind, my humour in hibernation.  Disempowered.  Frustrated.   

On these days I need to look for small, good things.  To remind myself that they still exist. The way the ducks have created a maze in the neighbourhood pond as they wend their way through the weeds.  Scribbly gum bark. The smell of my small nephews as they burrow into me for a cuddle.  The intentness of my son as he focuses on his latest web device, all eyebrows, elbows and frown. The lingering taste of wine on my tongue.  My lover's guttural, enthusiastic roar as his team scores a try in the football.  My cat asleep, resting his chin gently on my knee. The smell of my neighbour's dinner wafting with the breeze through my window.  The cool, dry evening after weeks of rain.  The anticipation of sleep.

Small good things for which I am grateful.

But I still can't shake the sorrow. I can't do enough. If I can do anything at all.


  1. good on you for writing about this...i find this stuff way to big to write about. thinking about it is bad enough. i dont really blog much regularly and most of it is extremely self obsessed and I do wonder about the time I spend thinking/writing about myself as opposed to what is going on out there that deserves more attention.

  2. Thanks. I am suffering a little from blog-multiple personality disorder.

    I am not a 'writer', but I write. I wanted to write how I felt because I felt it so strongly. I wanted to see if I could make other people feel something.

    I am late to all things political. When my boys were young living was about surviving, it was a very internally-focussed existence. But as they got older I was able to pay a bit more attention to what was going on. And I didn't like what I hadn't seen.

    Having said all that, I write about myself too! What other topic do we know so well? It's what you do with you, and the way that you do it that's interesting. :-) I never commented on it btw but I really enjoyed your bull-fighting piece.

  3. thanks jo, and thanks for your comment on my maggot cheese post. oh god, i never thought I'd pronounce those words, but never mind....